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Submitted by vel394 on 17 February 2018

i​ am suffering from schizophrenia and ocd . But my family, relatives and even my friend's and society don't understand this. . They all are thinking that I am just cheating them by not going to any job only because of my laziness. But this all happens only due to my disorder.. I already taken treatment in scarf due to some personal prb i stopped.i can't able to fulfill my work because of this disorder. Even I too wish to go for a job.. and to earn money..get married and build my own family... But there is no one to understand me and my pain.
 Lots of days I used to cry in my bed at late nights thinking about these things.
 I was good and normal till my college days. But now at the stage of settling in a life I'm facing such a problem.
 My parents are deaf and dumb.. and so they don't understand what is going on.. and also I don't know how to convey my problem to them. Now I'm alone without any support

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So sorry to know that you are so alone in this. How long has it been since yoir diagnosis? It takes time to adapt well to the symptoms and medicines too. Don't lose hope.

Mangala R

Sun, 02/18/2018 - 17:40

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Dear Vel1394

Sorry to know that you are struggling alone. If you continue to have symptoms which affect your functioning you may need medication to make you feel better. I am not sure if you are taking medicines now. If not, you should consider consulting a psychiatrist again. You can get back in touch with SCARF if you feel comfortable doing so.
We can help in educating your family members to understand your condition and be supportive. You can also participate in group therapy and other rehabilitation measures offered at SCARF to help you cope with difficulties in everyday life and at work.

Sorry for late reply,already im taking medicines but still hearing auditory hallucinations,I was admitted in scarf rehabilitation but discontinued and father won't allow me to rejoin

Father buying medicine for me but refuse to go scarf rehabilitation I don't know why??when I was in rehabilitation Dr mangala madam take good care of me,I can tolerate everything,my only one question is why I couldn't go to job?I have failed in so many interviews

Terribly sorry for late reply,one week I can't get aircel tower and I can't login into my mail I'd,I'm scared suppose you Talk to father if they scold you, daily scolding me to go job Because trying to fix marriage for me,my parents won't accept that I'm having ill And saying I'm cheating,I don't blame parents they got more insult because I'm 30 still staying in home,my name is sakthivel Mr.no:126180